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7 months agoMost non-binary people I know who date lesbians use the terms sapphic and lesbian to describe both themselves and their relationships. Note; “most non-binary people I know” used to identify as lesbian (or bi/pan) women and they still feel an attachment to that community despite not being women.
At the end of the day, though, labels are about what feel right to you. If you feel that sapphic/lesbian accurately describe you or your relationships, go ahead and use them! It doesn’t make you any less non-binary.
Personally, I just use “queer” for everything :P
Honestly, by asking here you’re already way ahead of like 99% of people in your situation.
I think openness to learning/listening is key, which you seem to have going for you, but I’d recommend an approach where you state your openness and let them come to you with that information when they’re comfortable to. Example; instead of asking “do you have new pronouns?” just say “if you want to try out new pronouns, let me know!”, that kind of thing.